How to Live in Harmony with your Roommates?Everyone has his answer.In my opinion,to Live in Harmony with your Roommates,one should:
Firstly, keep the same pace with roommates. There are usually four people or more in a room. It’s better to have a unified schedule. To maintain the order of the life, everyone should coordinate and abide by the schedule to reduce the disputes.
Secondly, don’t make little “squads” in the dormitory. You should treat every person equally rather than discriminating or isolating someone. We object to establish deep friendship under the cost of sacrificing the friendship’s width and breadth. It’s important to keep balance in the dormitory.
Thirdly, don't invade your roommates' privacy. Everyone has their own secrets and eccentricities. We should not search roommates' privacy. If someone has clearly made a field private, they must have special sensitive to this field and any subject attempting to break into this field will not be appreciated by them.
Fourthly, participate in dormitory’s collective activities actively. The activities of the dormitory is not only a simple activity, but also a way to contact with each other to share feelings. Don't be naive to think collective activity as boring and useless action which wastes time and money, and showing a pair of disparaging appearance for company. In fact, it's all emotional investment, and indispensable.
Fifth, provide help and ask for help. Good roommate relationships is based on mutual help. When roommates meet with difficulties, we should voluntarily help. That’s obvious. So, when we have some trouble, is it appropriate to ask help from roommates? The answer is yes. Because sometimes asking for help show that you trust your roommates, which can deepen your relationship.
如何與你的室友和諧相處嗎?每個人都有自己的答案。在我看來,與室友和諧相處,我們應該:
首先,與室友保持相同的步伐。通常有四人或更多的在一個房間里。是有一個統(tǒng)一的安排。維持生活的秩序,每個人都應該協(xié)調(diào)和遵守時間表,減少糾紛。
其次,不要讓小“小隊”宿舍。你應該平等對待每個人,而不是歧視或孤立的人。我們的成本下對象建立深厚的友誼犧牲友誼的寬度和廣度。重要的是要保持平衡在宿舍。
第三,不要入侵你的室友的隱私。每個人都有自己的秘密和怪癖。我們不應該尋找室友的隱私。如果有人顯然已經(jīng)做了一個私人領域,他們必須對這個領域有特殊的敏感和任何試圖進入這個領域將不會欣賞。
第四,積極參加宿舍的集體活動。宿舍的活動不僅是一個簡單的活動,也是一種聯(lián)系,分享感受。不要天真的認為集體活動很無聊也很無用動作,浪費時間和金錢,并為公司展示一副輕蔑的外觀。事實上,它是所有情感投資,不可或缺。
第五,提供幫助和請求幫助。良好的室友關系是建立在相互的幫助。當室友遇到困難時,我們應該主動幫助。這是顯而易見的。所以,當我們有一些麻煩,它是適當?shù)膯柺矣训膸椭鷨?答案是肯定的。因為有時求助表明你信任你的室友,可以加深你們的關系。
Firstly, keep the same pace with roommates. There are usually four people or more in a room. It’s better to have a unified schedule. To maintain the order of the life, everyone should coordinate and abide by the schedule to reduce the disputes.
Secondly, don’t make little “squads” in the dormitory. You should treat every person equally rather than discriminating or isolating someone. We object to establish deep friendship under the cost of sacrificing the friendship’s width and breadth. It’s important to keep balance in the dormitory.
Thirdly, don't invade your roommates' privacy. Everyone has their own secrets and eccentricities. We should not search roommates' privacy. If someone has clearly made a field private, they must have special sensitive to this field and any subject attempting to break into this field will not be appreciated by them.
Fourthly, participate in dormitory’s collective activities actively. The activities of the dormitory is not only a simple activity, but also a way to contact with each other to share feelings. Don't be naive to think collective activity as boring and useless action which wastes time and money, and showing a pair of disparaging appearance for company. In fact, it's all emotional investment, and indispensable.
Fifth, provide help and ask for help. Good roommate relationships is based on mutual help. When roommates meet with difficulties, we should voluntarily help. That’s obvious. So, when we have some trouble, is it appropriate to ask help from roommates? The answer is yes. Because sometimes asking for help show that you trust your roommates, which can deepen your relationship.
如何與你的室友和諧相處嗎?每個人都有自己的答案。在我看來,與室友和諧相處,我們應該:
首先,與室友保持相同的步伐。通常有四人或更多的在一個房間里。是有一個統(tǒng)一的安排。維持生活的秩序,每個人都應該協(xié)調(diào)和遵守時間表,減少糾紛。
其次,不要讓小“小隊”宿舍。你應該平等對待每個人,而不是歧視或孤立的人。我們的成本下對象建立深厚的友誼犧牲友誼的寬度和廣度。重要的是要保持平衡在宿舍。
第三,不要入侵你的室友的隱私。每個人都有自己的秘密和怪癖。我們不應該尋找室友的隱私。如果有人顯然已經(jīng)做了一個私人領域,他們必須對這個領域有特殊的敏感和任何試圖進入這個領域將不會欣賞。
第四,積極參加宿舍的集體活動。宿舍的活動不僅是一個簡單的活動,也是一種聯(lián)系,分享感受。不要天真的認為集體活動很無聊也很無用動作,浪費時間和金錢,并為公司展示一副輕蔑的外觀。事實上,它是所有情感投資,不可或缺。
第五,提供幫助和請求幫助。良好的室友關系是建立在相互的幫助。當室友遇到困難時,我們應該主動幫助。這是顯而易見的。所以,當我們有一些麻煩,它是適當?shù)膯柺矣训膸椭鷨?答案是肯定的。因為有時求助表明你信任你的室友,可以加深你們的關系。