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The real world is more fun than grumpy adults have ever told you.
Don't listen to people in their 40s who act like the best part of your life ends the minute you get your diploma. Is the real world all cotton candy and unicorn rides? No. But sometimes, misery loves company and recruits it too. When you start a new job there will inevitably be a group of people there who don't like their job and don't like being an adult. Avoid these people like the plague. They've bought into the cultural lie that a "job is just a job" and that you should only work for the weekend. Nonsense. Your job can be meaningful. Your weekdays can matter.
Your 20s are lonelier than you think they'll be.
They're glamorized in culture, presented as the time of your life. As you bingewatch an entire season of House of Cards on Netflix, you will wonder, Is every other person my age at an amazing party right now that I didn't know about? They're not. The truth is, when you leave college, you leave the tightest, largest concentration of people who are your age. Suddenly, you're scattered around the country and community won't involve walking out onto the quad. You'll have to fight for it. That's not failure, that's reality. Seek it out. It's not easy to make friends as an adult but it's definitely possible if you'll be brave.
現(xiàn)實世界遠比那些焦慮的成年人描述的要好得多。
在你剛拿到學歷的時刻千萬不要聽信那些四十幾歲風華正茂的人們。真實的世界果真充滿著棉花糖和獨角獸嗎?不是的。只是有時,福禍相依,之后滿血復活罷了。當你剛入職時會發(fā)現(xiàn),不可以避免的有這么一群人不喜歡他們的工作,也不喜歡當成年人。避開這種像瘟疫一樣的人。他們被帶入了社交怪圈,這些人認為工作就只是一份工作,而且你只是為了享受周末而工作。毫無意義!你的工作本可以變得有意義。 你的工作日也可以很重要。
你的二十幾歲注定是比你認為的要孤獨。
他們在圈子里是有魅力的,金光閃閃的出現(xiàn)在你的生活里。當你在Netflix上狂追一整季的紙牌屋時,你會疑惑,是不是我的同齡人正在閃耀的派對上而我一無所知?事實上不是的,真相是,當你離開校園,你就離開了同齡人最集中最大量的地方。突然,你們被分散到整個國家和社區(qū),這不是大家列隊站在廣場上。這不是失敗,而是現(xiàn)實。親自摸索出來。作為一個成年人是不容易交到朋友的,但如果你足夠勇敢這就是絕對可能的。
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