相信很多人，與陌生人開口的第一句話，就是一個(gè)無法繼續(xù)的問題，或者就是一個(gè)無法繼續(xù)的話題。也就是我們所說的，把話聊死了。今天給大家分享了怎樣避免用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天尷尬，趕緊來看看吧!
【篇一】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
〔01〕
How do you know...?
你怎么知道…的?
How do you know后面可加人名。
比如說，How do you know Charlie?
那么對(duì)方就會(huì)開始和你的下一段對(duì)話，就是表示他怎么認(rèn)識(shí)他的，話題就從中來啦。
〔02〕
What wheels you drive?
你喜歡開什么車?
這個(gè)對(duì)話的開始非常常見于兩個(gè)男性之間的談話，他們也對(duì)車都有著愛好。
這樣就可以進(jìn)行下一步的談?wù)摾病?BR> 〔03〕
You look familiar.
你看起來很面熟。
這句話適用在當(dāng)你看到一個(gè)陌生人，但是卻感覺跟TA有過交集又想不起來的時(shí)候。
但是不管是否曾經(jīng)認(rèn)識(shí)過，這也是一個(gè)作為開啟談話的好句子。
〔04〕
Where do you come from?
你是從哪里來的?
這一句話真的是最為推薦的一個(gè)開場(chǎng)白。
因?yàn)檫@會(huì)激起一些興趣，更好地進(jìn)行下一步談話。
比如說，對(duì)方回答：”I am from Sichuan.”
你就會(huì)想到四川的火鍋，延伸的回答便是：“ Sichuan hot pot is very delicious!I like it very much.”
〔05〕
What a small world!
世界真小啊!
當(dāng)你再一次見到這個(gè)人的時(shí)候，你就可以用這句話來開頭。
〔06〕
What are you into?
你喜歡什么?
What … are you into?…可以加一些類別相關(guān)的詞語(yǔ)。
比如可以加music，food，sport等。
〔07〕
Jingdong or Taobao?
京東還是淘寶買的?
當(dāng)你對(duì)對(duì)方的衣服或者某個(gè)飾品感興趣，你想問TA在哪兒買的，就可以這么問啦。
這個(gè)也是一個(gè)很好的開頭語(yǔ)，接下來你們可能會(huì)聊相關(guān)的話題哦。
〔08〕
Looks like a great thing.
看起來不錯(cuò)。
thing你可以換成drink或者其他你想要贊美的東西。
〔09〕
What are your thoughts on?
你怎么看?
你可以選擇最近的熱點(diǎn)事件，來問對(duì)方你怎么看待這個(gè)事情。
【篇二】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
1. 多問開放式的問題。
Ask open ended questions.
那些問了半天，只能讓對(duì)方蹦出兩個(gè)字的問題，就別再問了。想要進(jìn)一步增進(jìn)了解，還是聊點(diǎn)兒能讓人滔滔不絕的話題吧!畢竟聊得多了才更有可能進(jìn)一步交往嘛~
It is difficult to connect with someone if you ask them questions that can be answered in two words. There is no chance for a connection to develop. Instead of asking, “Where do you live?” trying asking “What do you think of your neighborhood?” Instead of “where did you get that shirt?” try “What do you think of the new store in the mall?” The longer you talk, the more chance there is for a connection to grow.
2. 找找你們的共同點(diǎn)。
Find things in common.
好朋友聊得來，首先要有共同話題。如果對(duì)方說自己在銀行實(shí)習(xí)，你可以提提你在金融圈的親朋好友。如果對(duì)方愛看真人秀，那就從你喜歡的節(jié)目聊起吧!
If your potential new friend interned at Credit Suisse, discuss that your brother works in finance. If she is all about reality TV, tell her which shows you’re into. Friendship is built on commonalities.
3. 多聊點(diǎn)感受。
Use emotion words.
講話內(nèi)容太客觀實(shí)則枯燥乏味。如果你想讓對(duì)方感興趣，那就多聊點(diǎn)你的感受吧!比如出門旅行這種事，與其嘮叨那些細(xì)碎的經(jīng)過，倒不如跟大家分享你差點(diǎn)找不到北的囧事兒，和如何打發(fā)漫長(zhǎng)旅途的郁悶。
Sticking to the facts makes a conversation dry and boring. You want to capture your new acquaintance’s interest by using emotion words so they can connect with you on a genuine level. Instead of going into detail about where you stayed on your trip to London, talk about how anxious you felt when you almost missed your connection. Instead of describing how long your commute is, discuss how much you dread that hour of your day.
4. 對(duì)方讓你想起了誰(shuí)?
Think of who this person reminds you of.
不管是身邊的親朋好友，還是電視里的名人明星，如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)對(duì)面這個(gè)人和其中哪位有些相似，就大膽說出來吧!大部分人還是會(huì)認(rèn)為這是認(rèn)可和稱贊噠~
If this person reminds you of a friend, someone on TV, or a public figure, tell them, as long as it isn’t insulting, of course. People love to hear who others think they look or act like. It is flattering that someone thinks about you enough to compare you to someone that they know and like.
5. 講話要有正能量。
Say positive things.
抱怨和發(fā)牢騷就免了吧!人家還沒怎么跟你接觸，估計(jì)就快受不了了。想想看也能知道，誰(shuí)會(huì)跟平時(shí)就愛大驚小怪和滿滿負(fù)能量的人做盆友呢?
Don’t complain or whine about your life or discuss how upset you are by friend or work drama. This makes a potential friend wary of getting too close. It can seem like you’re always creating drama and negative energy, which is a turn off.
6. 別做大嘴巴!
Don’t gossip.
愛跟別人說閑話的人，旁人都不敢跟他們走太近。誰(shuí)知道你一扭臉，又會(huì)說人家什么呢?所以，聊天的時(shí)候讓人家知道你不是大嘴巴，沒事兒別老把其他人扯進(jìn)話題里。
Many people will gossip right back, but then won’t be interested in becoming a closer friend to you. In the back of their mind, they will keep wondering what you’re going to say about them when their back is turned. Try to stay positive and give people the benefit of the doubt when you talk about them, or better, just talk about the two of you without dragging others, who aren’t even there, into the conversation.
7. 別說自己的壞話。
Don’t self-deprecate.
在人前數(shù)落自己的不是，會(huì)讓旁人十分尷尬。這讓人家該怎么回應(yīng)你呢?畢竟不是所有人都能像心理醫(yī)生那樣當(dāng)你的垃圾桶。
It can make people feel awkward to be around individuals who talk badly about themselves, complaining about their various terrible qualities. They feel like they have to reassure you, and nobody wants to be someone’s therapist.
8. 稱贊你倆的好友。
Praise mutual friends.
如果你們都和同一個(gè)人是好朋友，那就一起說說他的好話吧!這樣做不僅能提升你們對(duì)彼此的好感，還為今后大家一起玩耍創(chuàng)造了機(jī)會(huì)。
If you know someone in common, talk nicely about them. This will increase the chances that this new acquaintance thinks well of you, and it also makes it likely that the three of you can hang out sometime.
9. 聊聊今后可以一起參加的活動(dòng)。
Discuss potential future activities.
如果新認(rèn)識(shí)的小伙伴提到了一個(gè)你很感興趣的活動(dòng)，下次有類似的活動(dòng)別忘了叫上他們。千萬不要太一本正經(jīng)地拿出手機(jī)查你的檔期，你只需立刻表現(xiàn)出熱情就好了。
If your new acquaintance mentions an activity that you also enjoy, invite them to join you in the future. Not in a creepy way where you bring out your phone and start looking at the calendar, but just say that you’d love to have them come along surfing the next time you go to the beach, or whatever the case may be.
10. 要個(gè)聯(lián)系方式不必害臊。
Don’t be shy about asking to connect.
想要和人家成為好朋友，就別太矜持了。社交媒體這么多，加個(gè)微博微信神馬的沒什么大不了。如果對(duì)方能爽快地接受邀請(qǐng)加你做好友，那說明他對(duì)你的印象也還不錯(cuò)。
Plant the seed that you want to be closer friends by saying something like, “I’ll definitely have to friend you on Facebook.” This is also a good way to assess whether this person is also interested in being friends. If they seem excited and later immediately accept your friend request, it’s likely that a friendship may be developing.
【篇三】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
首先，電影、餐廳、公眾事件、假期和電視節(jié)目(films, restaurants, public events, vacations and TV shows) 這幾個(gè)都是西方人樂于聊的東西，用它們作為聊天話題絕對(duì)沒錯(cuò)，不用擔(dān)心觸到雷區(qū)~~此外，傳說中外國(guó)人很喜歡談?wù)摰奶鞖庖彩强梢阅脕懋?dāng)話題的，不過有些人會(huì)覺得有點(diǎn)無聊就是了。
其次大家要了解，西方人還蠻喜歡給朋友建議的，所以如果你拿某件事兒來問他們，他們會(huì)很樂意給你答案，比方說：
Do you know if anything good is playing at the cinema right now?
你知道*里現(xiàn)在有上映什么好電影嗎?(“電*”英國(guó)人說cinema，美國(guó)人則說movie theater)
I really want to find a good Italian restaurant; any suggestions?
我很想找到一家好的意大利餐館，你有什么推薦嗎?
I saw an advertisement on TV last night for that new show, Prison Break. Have you seen it? 昨晚我在電視里看到那部新劇《越獄》的廣告，你看到了嗎?
最后，要想把談話繼續(xù)下去，的辦法就是多問問題啦!
比如你問，"Do you know any good Italian restaurants?"(你知道什么吃意大利菜的好地方嗎?)對(duì)方卻回答，"No, sorry—I don't really like Italian food."(對(duì)不起我不知道，其實(shí)我不太喜歡吃意大利菜……)那你可以接著問，"Oh, ok. What kind of food do you usually go out for then?"(哦~~那你一般出去吃哪種菜呢?)
【篇一】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
〔01〕
How do you know...?
你怎么知道…的?
How do you know后面可加人名。
比如說，How do you know Charlie?
那么對(duì)方就會(huì)開始和你的下一段對(duì)話，就是表示他怎么認(rèn)識(shí)他的，話題就從中來啦。
〔02〕
What wheels you drive?
你喜歡開什么車?
這個(gè)對(duì)話的開始非常常見于兩個(gè)男性之間的談話，他們也對(duì)車都有著愛好。
這樣就可以進(jìn)行下一步的談?wù)摾病?BR> 〔03〕
You look familiar.
你看起來很面熟。
這句話適用在當(dāng)你看到一個(gè)陌生人，但是卻感覺跟TA有過交集又想不起來的時(shí)候。
但是不管是否曾經(jīng)認(rèn)識(shí)過，這也是一個(gè)作為開啟談話的好句子。
〔04〕
Where do you come from?
你是從哪里來的?
這一句話真的是最為推薦的一個(gè)開場(chǎng)白。
因?yàn)檫@會(huì)激起一些興趣，更好地進(jìn)行下一步談話。
比如說，對(duì)方回答：”I am from Sichuan.”
你就會(huì)想到四川的火鍋，延伸的回答便是：“ Sichuan hot pot is very delicious!I like it very much.”
〔05〕
What a small world!
世界真小啊!
當(dāng)你再一次見到這個(gè)人的時(shí)候，你就可以用這句話來開頭。
〔06〕
What are you into?
你喜歡什么?
What … are you into?…可以加一些類別相關(guān)的詞語(yǔ)。
比如可以加music，food，sport等。
〔07〕
Jingdong or Taobao?
京東還是淘寶買的?
當(dāng)你對(duì)對(duì)方的衣服或者某個(gè)飾品感興趣，你想問TA在哪兒買的，就可以這么問啦。
這個(gè)也是一個(gè)很好的開頭語(yǔ)，接下來你們可能會(huì)聊相關(guān)的話題哦。
〔08〕
Looks like a great thing.
看起來不錯(cuò)。
thing你可以換成drink或者其他你想要贊美的東西。
〔09〕
What are your thoughts on?
你怎么看?
你可以選擇最近的熱點(diǎn)事件，來問對(duì)方你怎么看待這個(gè)事情。
【篇二】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
1. 多問開放式的問題。
Ask open ended questions.
那些問了半天，只能讓對(duì)方蹦出兩個(gè)字的問題，就別再問了。想要進(jìn)一步增進(jìn)了解，還是聊點(diǎn)兒能讓人滔滔不絕的話題吧!畢竟聊得多了才更有可能進(jìn)一步交往嘛~
It is difficult to connect with someone if you ask them questions that can be answered in two words. There is no chance for a connection to develop. Instead of asking, “Where do you live?” trying asking “What do you think of your neighborhood?” Instead of “where did you get that shirt?” try “What do you think of the new store in the mall?” The longer you talk, the more chance there is for a connection to grow.
2. 找找你們的共同點(diǎn)。
Find things in common.
好朋友聊得來，首先要有共同話題。如果對(duì)方說自己在銀行實(shí)習(xí)，你可以提提你在金融圈的親朋好友。如果對(duì)方愛看真人秀，那就從你喜歡的節(jié)目聊起吧!
If your potential new friend interned at Credit Suisse, discuss that your brother works in finance. If she is all about reality TV, tell her which shows you’re into. Friendship is built on commonalities.
3. 多聊點(diǎn)感受。
Use emotion words.
講話內(nèi)容太客觀實(shí)則枯燥乏味。如果你想讓對(duì)方感興趣，那就多聊點(diǎn)你的感受吧!比如出門旅行這種事，與其嘮叨那些細(xì)碎的經(jīng)過，倒不如跟大家分享你差點(diǎn)找不到北的囧事兒，和如何打發(fā)漫長(zhǎng)旅途的郁悶。
Sticking to the facts makes a conversation dry and boring. You want to capture your new acquaintance’s interest by using emotion words so they can connect with you on a genuine level. Instead of going into detail about where you stayed on your trip to London, talk about how anxious you felt when you almost missed your connection. Instead of describing how long your commute is, discuss how much you dread that hour of your day.
4. 對(duì)方讓你想起了誰(shuí)?
Think of who this person reminds you of.
不管是身邊的親朋好友，還是電視里的名人明星，如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)對(duì)面這個(gè)人和其中哪位有些相似，就大膽說出來吧!大部分人還是會(huì)認(rèn)為這是認(rèn)可和稱贊噠~
If this person reminds you of a friend, someone on TV, or a public figure, tell them, as long as it isn’t insulting, of course. People love to hear who others think they look or act like. It is flattering that someone thinks about you enough to compare you to someone that they know and like.
5. 講話要有正能量。
Say positive things.
抱怨和發(fā)牢騷就免了吧!人家還沒怎么跟你接觸，估計(jì)就快受不了了。想想看也能知道，誰(shuí)會(huì)跟平時(shí)就愛大驚小怪和滿滿負(fù)能量的人做盆友呢?
Don’t complain or whine about your life or discuss how upset you are by friend or work drama. This makes a potential friend wary of getting too close. It can seem like you’re always creating drama and negative energy, which is a turn off.
6. 別做大嘴巴!
Don’t gossip.
愛跟別人說閑話的人，旁人都不敢跟他們走太近。誰(shuí)知道你一扭臉，又會(huì)說人家什么呢?所以，聊天的時(shí)候讓人家知道你不是大嘴巴，沒事兒別老把其他人扯進(jìn)話題里。
Many people will gossip right back, but then won’t be interested in becoming a closer friend to you. In the back of their mind, they will keep wondering what you’re going to say about them when their back is turned. Try to stay positive and give people the benefit of the doubt when you talk about them, or better, just talk about the two of you without dragging others, who aren’t even there, into the conversation.
7. 別說自己的壞話。
Don’t self-deprecate.
在人前數(shù)落自己的不是，會(huì)讓旁人十分尷尬。這讓人家該怎么回應(yīng)你呢?畢竟不是所有人都能像心理醫(yī)生那樣當(dāng)你的垃圾桶。
It can make people feel awkward to be around individuals who talk badly about themselves, complaining about their various terrible qualities. They feel like they have to reassure you, and nobody wants to be someone’s therapist.
8. 稱贊你倆的好友。
Praise mutual friends.
如果你們都和同一個(gè)人是好朋友，那就一起說說他的好話吧!這樣做不僅能提升你們對(duì)彼此的好感，還為今后大家一起玩耍創(chuàng)造了機(jī)會(huì)。
If you know someone in common, talk nicely about them. This will increase the chances that this new acquaintance thinks well of you, and it also makes it likely that the three of you can hang out sometime.
9. 聊聊今后可以一起參加的活動(dòng)。
Discuss potential future activities.
如果新認(rèn)識(shí)的小伙伴提到了一個(gè)你很感興趣的活動(dòng)，下次有類似的活動(dòng)別忘了叫上他們。千萬不要太一本正經(jīng)地拿出手機(jī)查你的檔期，你只需立刻表現(xiàn)出熱情就好了。
If your new acquaintance mentions an activity that you also enjoy, invite them to join you in the future. Not in a creepy way where you bring out your phone and start looking at the calendar, but just say that you’d love to have them come along surfing the next time you go to the beach, or whatever the case may be.
10. 要個(gè)聯(lián)系方式不必害臊。
Don’t be shy about asking to connect.
想要和人家成為好朋友，就別太矜持了。社交媒體這么多，加個(gè)微博微信神馬的沒什么大不了。如果對(duì)方能爽快地接受邀請(qǐng)加你做好友，那說明他對(duì)你的印象也還不錯(cuò)。
Plant the seed that you want to be closer friends by saying something like, “I’ll definitely have to friend you on Facebook.” This is also a good way to assess whether this person is also interested in being friends. If they seem excited and later immediately accept your friend request, it’s likely that a friendship may be developing.
【篇三】怎樣用英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)聊天避免尷尬
首先，電影、餐廳、公眾事件、假期和電視節(jié)目(films, restaurants, public events, vacations and TV shows) 這幾個(gè)都是西方人樂于聊的東西，用它們作為聊天話題絕對(duì)沒錯(cuò)，不用擔(dān)心觸到雷區(qū)~~此外，傳說中外國(guó)人很喜歡談?wù)摰奶鞖庖彩强梢阅脕懋?dāng)話題的，不過有些人會(huì)覺得有點(diǎn)無聊就是了。
其次大家要了解，西方人還蠻喜歡給朋友建議的，所以如果你拿某件事兒來問他們，他們會(huì)很樂意給你答案，比方說：
Do you know if anything good is playing at the cinema right now?
你知道*里現(xiàn)在有上映什么好電影嗎?(“電*”英國(guó)人說cinema，美國(guó)人則說movie theater)
I really want to find a good Italian restaurant; any suggestions?
我很想找到一家好的意大利餐館，你有什么推薦嗎?
I saw an advertisement on TV last night for that new show, Prison Break. Have you seen it? 昨晚我在電視里看到那部新劇《越獄》的廣告，你看到了嗎?
最后，要想把談話繼續(xù)下去，的辦法就是多問問題啦!
比如你問，"Do you know any good Italian restaurants?"(你知道什么吃意大利菜的好地方嗎?)對(duì)方卻回答，"No, sorry—I don't really like Italian food."(對(duì)不起我不知道，其實(shí)我不太喜歡吃意大利菜……)那你可以接著問，"Oh, ok. What kind of food do you usually go out for then?"(哦~~那你一般出去吃哪種菜呢?)