通過(guò)英語(yǔ)結(jié)交朋友

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    如何通過(guò)英語(yǔ)結(jié)交朋友?以下內(nèi)容由整理發(fā)布,歡迎閱讀參考!
    Meeting people with English/通過(guò)英語(yǔ)結(jié)交朋友
    學(xué)習(xí)外國(guó)語(yǔ)言困難的一步就是有自信的開(kāi)始和別人交談。尤其是和他們土生土長(zhǎng)的人。這里有一些忠告可以幫助你break the ice。
    打開(kāi)話(huà)題
    第一步就是break the ice(開(kāi)使交談)。你可以自我介紹:「Hello, my name is...」或者是試著較輕松的方式象是「Hi,
    I'm...」你可以隨著你打招呼時(shí)問(wèn)一些簡(jiǎn)單的問(wèn)題象是「Where do
    you come from?」或是如果你現(xiàn)在正在外面,你可以評(píng)論今天的天氣,象是「It's really cold today isn't it?」
    有一個(gè)很好的建議是開(kāi)始用一些簡(jiǎn)單及非個(gè)人的話(huà)題來(lái)幫助你建立自己的自信。天氣是全世界每一個(gè)人容易討論的話(huà)題!
    合適的話(huà)題
    將你已經(jīng)知道的單字,在平常的時(shí)候運(yùn)用出來(lái)是一個(gè)讓交談持續(xù)的好方法。例如:如果你參加派對(duì),你可以問(wèn)別人他們是否認(rèn)識(shí)這里的主人?;蚴侨绻阏谂抨?duì)等公交車(chē),你可以一邊嘆息一邊說(shuō)「Don't you just hate waiting in line!」
    然后,好的話(huà)題是詢(xún)問(wèn)你的新朋友有關(guān)于他或是她自己:「Where do you work?」 或「What do you like to do in your spare time?」當(dāng)你想要認(rèn)識(shí)某一個(gè)人這些是好的問(wèn)題,請(qǐng)記得每一個(gè)人都很喜歡談?wù)撚嘘P(guān)于他們自己!
    適當(dāng)?shù)幕貞?yīng)
    持續(xù)的談話(huà)很重要的對(duì)于回應(yīng)別人在說(shuō)什么.例如:「That must be interesting!」或是「Really? I've never tried that."你也可以重復(fù)對(duì)方說(shuō)的及問(wèn)一些follow-up問(wèn)題,象是「You lived in
    Paris? For how long?」
    聆聽(tīng)技巧
    在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中談話(huà)相較于在課堂中交談是較具挑戰(zhàn)性的。但是請(qǐng)不要放棄!你并不需要了解每一個(gè)字的意思:而是將你的注意力集中在你已經(jīng)知道的字取代執(zhí)著在你不知道的那些字上。
    后,不要忘記要有禮貌,否則你會(huì)'put your foot in it'
    一些很尷尬的話(huà)。像這樣的錯(cuò)誤將會(huì)結(jié)束這個(gè)交談在這些事情開(kāi)始之前。
    純英文部分:
    One of the hardest steps in learning a foreign language is finding the confidence to start a conversation. This is especially difficult when the other person is a native speaker. Here are some tips to help you break the ice.
    Opening lines
    The first step is to break the ice (start the conversation). You can introduce yourself with: "Hello, my name is..." or try a more relaxed approach like "Hi, I'm..." You can follow up your greeting with a simple question like "Where do you come from?" or a comment on the weather if you're outside, e.g. "It's really cold today isn't it?"
    It's a good idea to start with something easy and impersonal to help you build your confidence. The subject of weather is an easy one that everyone in the world is able to talk about!
    Suitable Topics
    A good way to keep a conversation going is to talk about something you've got in common. For example if you meet someone at a party, you could ask them how they know the host. Or if you're standing in line for the bus, you could sigh and say "Don't you just hate waiting in line!"
    After that, the best thing to do is to ask your new friend about him or herself: "Where do you work?" or "What do you like to do in your spare time?" are good questions when getting to know someone. Remember, everyone likes to talk about themselves!
    Appropriate Responses
    To keep a conversation going it's important to respond to what people say, for example "That must be interesting!" or "Really? I've never tried that." You could also repeat what the person says and ask a follow-up question, like "You lived in Paris? For how long?"
    Listening Techniques
    Having a conversation in the 'real world' is always more challenging than talking in the classroom. But don't give up! Remember, you don't have to understand every word: concentrate on the words that you do understand instead of getting stuck on the ones you don't.
    Finally, don't forget to be polite, or you may 'put your foot in it' and say something embarrassing. Mistakes like these can end a conversation before they even start.