1、"We can usually learn much more from people whose views we share than from people
whose views contradict our own; disagreement can cause stress and inhibit learning."
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1、部分同意
1、意見(jiàn)相同的人有共同關(guān)心的問(wèn)題，容易交流，可以學(xué)到
In addition, their views reveal the importance and the core of our work and their positive suggestions
could provide us a more insightful understanding of the topic and more thoughts for further work.
However, all the help described above can only promise our success in completeness of our own ideas
about the topic. Breakthrough will be hardly achieved because it requires a distinct vision never
created before to lead people. Without different opinions, it is difficult to jump out from our own
myopic thinking.
1. 我們通常從和我們意見(jiàn)統(tǒng)一的人那里學(xué)到的東西比從和我們意見(jiàn)相悖的人那里學(xué)到的東西多的多;意見(jiàn)分歧阻
礙了學(xué)習(xí)。
① 與意見(jiàn)相同的人效率高。大家基本觀點(diǎn)一致，氣氛比較和諧，還可能是受的教育相同。如：有時(shí)遇到一個(gè)問(wèn)題，
會(huì)傾向于和自己有相同觀點(diǎn)的人討論，和其他人根本談不來(lái)。
② 承認(rèn)有時(shí)與意見(jiàn)相背的人討論時(shí)降低效率的。A 有時(shí)根本立場(chǎng)就不一樣，根本無(wú)法達(dá)成一致。B 有時(shí)純粹就是
爭(zhēng)論而忘了初始的目的。
③ 和意見(jiàn)相背的人在一起還有可能難以提高 A 一方面可能壓力較大而不說(shuō)出意見(jiàn) B 可能難以接受自己的意見(jiàn)被
駁斥 is little harder or even bitter to accept opposite views
④ 但是也能從意見(jiàn)相背的人那里學(xué)到很多。和同樣的人在一起，有相同的思考方法和論點(diǎn)，無(wú)法獲得進(jìn)步。而意見(jiàn)
相背的人，可以 A 提供新的思路 如：不同學(xué)科的學(xué)生可能傾向于使用不同的分析方法 B 給出我們所不了解的
實(shí)證經(jīng)驗(yàn)，如：文化傳統(tǒng)或立場(chǎng)不同而對(duì)一件事情有著不同的看法。
Although we can learn knowledge from people whose views we share, the knowledge is limited, since
the sphere of knowledge of the people who share the same opinion are confined to the same level of
cognition with us.
It will be quite different if we communicate with people whose views contradict to ours.
Admittedly that, it is little harder or even bitter to accept opposite views for us due to our
self-assertion is impaired caused by other’s challenge.