campus love isn't a newly-born phenomenon. some people are strongly against it while some others think it's natural. i don't advocate it. the reasons are as follows. first of all, undergraduates are neither fully psychologically mature nor able to assume the responsibility, especially freshmen and sophomores.
second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn't rare. third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep company, etc. what's more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that they could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the sense of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts. last, the proportion of successful couples is too low. the overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc.
so, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wiser decision after graduation.
校園里的愛(ài)情是不是一個(gè)剛出生的現(xiàn)象。有些人是堅(jiān)決反對(duì)的，而另一些人認(rèn)為這是自然的。我不提倡的。原因如下。首先，本科生既不是完全的心理成熟，也沒(méi)有能力承擔(dān)責(zé)任，特別是一，二年級(jí)學(xué)生。
第二，他們可能會(huì)沉迷于它，從而破敗他們的研究，這是不罕見(jiàn)的。第三，有的只是利用它來(lái)打發(fā)時(shí)間，避免無(wú)聊與太多的時(shí)間在自己的處置，有一個(gè)人做伴，等更重要的是，一些零錢約會(huì)“合作伙伴”頻頻，抱著矛盾的意見(jiàn)，他們可以炫耀自己魅力還是積累經(jīng)驗(yàn)，但往往不是，他們會(huì)留下不好的印象，如缺乏責(zé)任感，對(duì)他人，特別是他們的前情人。最后，成功的夫妻中的比重過(guò)低。絕大多數(shù)達(dá)到相同的最終離別只是在畢業(yè)前，被現(xiàn)實(shí)等強(qiáng)制
所以，你的飛躍，放棄校園愛(ài)情，并在畢業(yè)后一個(gè)明智的決定之前的樣子。
second, they may indulge in it, thus dilapidate their study, which isn't rare. third, some just take advantage of it to kill time, avoid boredom with much time at their own disposals, have someone keep company, etc. what's more, some change dating "partners" frequently, holding a paradox opinion that they could show off their charm or accumulate experience, but more often than not, they would leave a bad impression, such as lacking the sense of responsibility, on others, especially their former sweethearts. last, the proportion of successful couples is too low. the overwhelming majority reach the same end-parting just before graduation, forced by reality, etc.
so, look before you leap, discard campus love and make a wiser decision after graduation.
校園里的愛(ài)情是不是一個(gè)剛出生的現(xiàn)象。有些人是堅(jiān)決反對(duì)的，而另一些人認(rèn)為這是自然的。我不提倡的。原因如下。首先，本科生既不是完全的心理成熟，也沒(méi)有能力承擔(dān)責(zé)任，特別是一，二年級(jí)學(xué)生。
第二，他們可能會(huì)沉迷于它，從而破敗他們的研究，這是不罕見(jiàn)的。第三，有的只是利用它來(lái)打發(fā)時(shí)間，避免無(wú)聊與太多的時(shí)間在自己的處置，有一個(gè)人做伴，等更重要的是，一些零錢約會(huì)“合作伙伴”頻頻，抱著矛盾的意見(jiàn)，他們可以炫耀自己魅力還是積累經(jīng)驗(yàn)，但往往不是，他們會(huì)留下不好的印象，如缺乏責(zé)任感，對(duì)他人，特別是他們的前情人。最后，成功的夫妻中的比重過(guò)低。絕大多數(shù)達(dá)到相同的最終離別只是在畢業(yè)前，被現(xiàn)實(shí)等強(qiáng)制
所以，你的飛躍，放棄校園愛(ài)情，并在畢業(yè)后一個(gè)明智的決定之前的樣子。