有關愛情的英語文章閱讀翻譯:三秒后,我們和好吧

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The best feeling is not quarrel, but noisy noisy people say three seconds after the US and the right. Last three seconds, before the fight back to harmony, together peacefully resolve their conflicts, mutual tolerance, mutual compromise.
    "After three seconds, we make it". This is Hui Hefeng Fight Code, as long as there are people to speak this sentence, no matter at that time is very angry, have to in three seconds to eliminate anger, all did not say exports wounding words all swallow back belly, can no longer continue to fight. This signal from in their first fight, since then no matter how they quarrel, will soon reconciled, feelings are getting better and better.
    The time. Feng sent a "Long Yuan Fengxiang" pendant to the benefit, that is able to protect the palace of marriage, can let two people's love and marriage for a long time. Hui originally did not like to wear this kind of jewelry, and listen to the front so that the sense of the front is not trust her, think she will betray the feelings of two people, and afraid of their feelings can not last long. The idea made no impression on the more favored pendant, she refused to wear it, but she insisted on wearing a front. Feng insisted that the front really do not trust their own, anger on the front of the hair temper. Feng think Hui somehow, he is obviously good intentions to send her gift has been treated in this way, also started to get angry again, two people quarrel bitterly.
    Two people back and forth noisy half an hour after, Feng suddenly feel this argument a bit pointless, Hui doesn't want to wear even, sending him on a like her gift good. So, he Hui said: "three seconds later, we make it." For a moment of reaction, the front began to count down: "three, two, one. Sorry, I don't know you so doesn't like this pendant, even if you do not want to." Hear the front should apologize, you feel too make trouble out of nothing to say: "feel shy, who said I doesn't like the." Then grab the pendant with Hui, two people Xiangshiyixiao, who also did not mention a few minutes before the quarrel between the two.
    In other people's eyes, the front and the benefits never quarrel, the feeling is very good, it is curious to ask them how they do not quarrel, how to make love fresh. Wa Megumi looked at each other, invariably said: "after three seconds, we make it." Maybe others still don't understand why, after three seconds can not quarrel, feelings will be better, perhaps only they two people will understand this sentence is how important. Two people together there will be some contradictions, and can not help but quarrel, you can use the idea to let each other know. But can not fight too long, time will hurt feelings, but can not cold war. Noisy to a certain extent, the less angry people to give up, to stop the argument, and so on each other to discuss how to resolve the contradiction.
    This method may only be applied to the two individuals are very cherish each other's feelings, because of the treasure, so no matter how angry they have to give each other a lower level, when the steps appear immediately follow the steps, so that the end of the argument. Therefore, the best love is not no quarrels and conflicts, but quarrel with each other in the said: "after 3 seconds, we are good." Otherwise, no good feelings can not afford a long time of the quarrel and the cold war, even if the fight has lost the feeling.
    的感情不是不吵架,而是吵著吵著有人會說三秒后我們和好吧。倒數(shù)三秒,回到吵架之前的融洽,一起平靜地解決彼此的矛盾,互相包容,互相妥協(xié)。
    “三秒后,我們和好吧”。這是惠和鋒吵架時的暗號,只要有人先說出這句話,不管當時有多么生氣,都要在三秒內消除怒氣,把所有未說出口的傷人話語全部咽回肚子里,不能再繼續(xù)吵架。這個暗號來自于他們的第一次吵架,從此以后無論他們如何爭吵,都會很快和好,感情也越來越好。
    那一次,鋒送了一個“龍元鳳翔”吊墜給惠,說是能保護婚姻宮,能夠讓兩個人的愛情和婚姻長長久久?;荼緛砭筒幌矚g戴這一類首飾,又聽鋒這樣說,下意識地認為鋒是不信任她,覺得她會背叛兩個人的感情,而且害怕他們的感情不能長久。這個想法讓惠更加對這個吊墜沒有好感,她拒絕戴上它,但鋒堅持要她戴著。鋒的堅持讓惠覺得鋒真的不信任自己,怒氣一上來就對鋒發(fā)脾氣。鋒覺得惠莫名其妙,他明明是好心好意地送她禮物卻得到這樣的對待,也開始生氣了,兩個人吵得不可開交。
    兩個人一來一往吵了半個小時之后,鋒突然覺得這樣的爭吵一點意義都沒有,惠不想戴就算了,他再送另一份她喜歡的禮物就好了。于是,他對惠說:“三秒后,我們和好吧?!被菀粫r反應不過來,鋒就開始倒數(shù):“三、二、一。對不起,我不知道你這么不喜歡這個吊墜,你不想要就算了?!甭牭戒h竟然道歉了,惠覺得自己太無理取鬧了,不好意思地說:“誰說我不喜歡的?!比缓蠡輷屵^吊墜戴上,兩個人相視一笑,誰也沒有提起幾分鐘前兩個人吵架的事情。
    在旁人看來,鋒和惠從來不吵架,感情非常好,就好奇地問他們是如何不吵架,如何讓愛情保鮮的。鋒和惠對視了一下,不約而同地說:“三秒后,我們和好吧?!币苍S旁人依舊不能理解為什么三秒之后就能不吵架,感情還會更好,也許只有他們兩個人才會明白這句話有多么重要。兩個人在一起總會產生一些矛盾,會忍不住吵架,可以借著爭吵說出自己的想法讓對方知道。但是不能吵太長時間,時間長了就會傷感情,更不能冷戰(zhàn)。吵到一定的程度之后,怒氣比較少的人就要讓步,停止爭吵,等彼此都冷靜下來之后再一起商量如何解決矛盾。
    這個方法或許只適用于兩個人都十分珍惜彼此的感情的情況下,因為珍惜,所以不管多么生氣都要給對方一個下臺階,當臺階出現(xiàn)就立即順著臺階下,讓爭吵落幕。因此,的愛情不是沒有爭吵和矛盾,而是在吵架時和對方說:“三秒后,我們和好吧?!狈駝t,再好的感情都經不起長時間的爭吵和冷戰(zhàn),即使吵贏了也輸了感情。