Less secure people are quite different. Instead of finding security in themselves, they look for other people to provide it. This kind of person constantly agrees with everything others suggest, for fear of having their own ideas rejected. Arrogant or defensive people are also usually insecure; in an attempt to hide their insecurities, they belittle or blame others.
缺乏安全感的人就很不一樣了。他們不是在自己內(nèi)心尋找安全感，而是尋找他人的幫助來獲得安全感。這種人總是同意別人建議的每件事，就因?yàn)楹ε伦约旱囊庖姇?huì)遭到拒絕。傲慢或防御心強(qiáng)的人通常也是很沒有安全感的，他們會(huì)借著貶低或指責(zé)別人，來掩飾他們的不安。
缺乏安全感的人就很不一樣了。他們不是在自己內(nèi)心尋找安全感，而是尋找他人的幫助來獲得安全感。這種人總是同意別人建議的每件事，就因?yàn)楹ε伦约旱囊庖姇?huì)遭到拒絕。傲慢或防御心強(qiáng)的人通常也是很沒有安全感的，他們會(huì)借著貶低或指責(zé)別人，來掩飾他們的不安。