middle-age is a crucial period and middle-aged women are facing even more dangers. youth is still lingering on there, but it can’t stand any carelessness or negligence. staying youth can be likened to climbing a steep hill, while negligence will lead to decrepitude overnight. those who feed on their youth will have to opt otherwise at this stage.
this is a time full of temptations, alluring girls and glamourous women pop up everywhere, making the discomposed men confused and disoriented, leaving behind more and more broken-up families and abandoned wives, thereby leading the middle-aged to the heartfelt realization that women cannot afford to grow old.
beauty parlors are being opened one after another and the cosmetics market is getting more and more prosperous in order to keep the youthful face of women forever fresh.. proper facial care, hair-dressing or aerobics are all necessary for women, but they are only superficial and can not last long. they can in no way do the cosmetic make-ups round-the-clock.. what will become of them after removing the cosmetics from their face?
women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared ． they need the sense of security too. we may well say that men’s youth lies in their career while women’s youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might. they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all. how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?
what are those women after? money? but will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully become wealthy old ladies?
maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and limousines. but these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our shoulders. is it still worth the price if their pursuit has become a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?
or maybe they need the money for their children to study abroad. but studying abroad is not the ambition of everyone. as we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldn’t choose the same way for them to grow up. doing business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different children. some even want to become chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after becoming successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession.. why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? what’s the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?
we should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for it. a billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and healthy. we may feel sometimes that the luxurious beijing roast duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with shallots. only when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with composure.
what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness. don’t do too much extra work, don’t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.
what’s more, they need security and friendship. no matter how strong a man is, he needs support; no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing. the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man. middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man. what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable. any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.
middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness. they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical. once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy
參考譯文：
中年是一個(gè)關(guān)鍵時(shí)期，中年婦女正面臨更加危險(xiǎn)。青年是依然存在，但它不能忍受任何疏忽或過(guò)失。住青年可以比喻為攀登陡峭的山坡，而疏忽將導(dǎo)致衰老的。這些誰(shuí)養(yǎng)活他們的青年將有選擇，否則在這個(gè)階段。
這是一個(gè)充滿誘惑時(shí)，誘人的女孩和富有魅力的女性彈出無(wú)處不在，使男人暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向，留下越來(lái)越多的破碎的家庭和被遺棄的妻子，從而導(dǎo)致中年人士的衷心實(shí)現(xiàn)婦女不能變老。
美容院正在打開(kāi)一個(gè)又一個(gè)的化妝品市場(chǎng)越來(lái)越繁榮，以使年輕婦女永遠(yuǎn)面對(duì)新..適當(dāng)?shù)拿娌孔o(hù)理，美發(fā)或有氧運(yùn)動(dòng)都是必要的婦女，但他們只是表面上的，并不能持續(xù)很長(zhǎng)時(shí)間。他們絕不能這樣做化妝品使企業(yè)全天候..什么將成為它們的化妝品后，消除他們的臉？
婦女需要完善其思想，使自己更理智的準(zhǔn)備。他們需要的安全感了。我們可以說(shuō)，青年男子是他們的職業(yè)，而婦女的青年依賴于他們的精神狀態(tài)和種植由于銀的崛起和衰退的羊，我們可以看到許多有能力的婦女設(shè)計(jì)和計(jì)算所有的可能。他們?cè)?jīng)是非常漂亮的，現(xiàn)在仍然迷人，但中年以后所有。多久，他們?nèi)匀槐３制錅p少青年？
什么是這些婦女在？錢嗎？但是他們會(huì)很高興，如果他們不得不數(shù)錢的瘦弱干癟的手后，他們成功地富起來(lái)老太太？
也許他們正在尋求為寬敞的住房和轎車。但是，這些只是我們服務(wù)的工具一樣，摩托車是我們坐，而不是對(duì)我們進(jìn)行了我們肩上。它仍然是值得的價(jià)格，如果他們的追求已成為一種負(fù)擔(dān)或壓力，要求他們犧牲的青年？
或者，也許他們需要錢為孩子出國(guó)留學(xué)。但出國(guó)留學(xué)并不是每個(gè)人的野心。正如我們經(jīng)常說(shuō)，孩子有自己的運(yùn)氣，我們不應(yīng)該選擇以同樣的方式為他們長(zhǎng)大。營(yíng)商或?qū)⒃谡?，工作，文職職位或軍事官員的不同選擇不同的兒童。有些人甚至想成為國(guó)際象棋選手，它是這樣一個(gè)美妙的職業(yè)生涯后，成為成功的，他們可以下棋有益的職業(yè)..我們?yōu)槭裁匆M的努力把我們的孩子在國(guó)外有這么多的不確定性？什么是點(diǎn)犧牲我們寶貴的青年向我們的孩子的地方，可能是天堂，還是地獄？
我們應(yīng)該尋求適度的財(cái)富，為沒(méi)有限制的。億萬(wàn)富翁吃不超過(guò)一日三餐和睡在一張床，而在晚上的家庭生活在一個(gè)微薄的工資可以是非常愉快，身體健康。有時(shí)我們可能會(huì)覺(jué)得這豪華的北京烤鴨，沒(méi)有更多的美味簡(jiǎn)單的煎餅比與青蔥。只有當(dāng)他們保持一個(gè)和平的心，他們既面臨有利和屈辱與鎮(zhèn)定。
什么是中年婦女的需要，以維持其青年和注定衰老？?jī)?yōu)秀品質(zhì)和良好的舉止，自信和冷靜。不要做太多額外的工作，沒(méi)有自己的輪胎，決不嘗試任何超越你的能力和精力。
更重要的是，他們需要安全和友誼。無(wú)論多么強(qiáng)大一個(gè)人，他需要的支持;無(wú)論多么獨(dú)立是一個(gè)女人，她需要的支持。在華麗的女孩可能關(guān)心只是娛樂(lè)，他們甚至可能不會(huì)考慮的可靠性和能力的一個(gè)人。中年婦女，但是，更為實(shí)際，他們必須面對(duì)的忠誠(chéng)和創(chuàng)造力的一名男子。他們正在尋求的是最忠實(shí)，最負(fù)責(zé)任的，世界上大，最可靠和最值得信賴的愛(ài)情幾乎是永恒的和不可改變的。任何形式的罷工可能會(huì)削弱他們的青年這是一次經(jīng)歷從未返回。
中年婦女必須保持清醒的頭腦而不是做事的任性。他們應(yīng)該能夠判斷誰(shuí)是真誠(chéng)的，誰(shuí)是虛偽的。一旦他們選擇的虛偽，而不是真誠(chéng)的疏忽，悲劇
this is a time full of temptations, alluring girls and glamourous women pop up everywhere, making the discomposed men confused and disoriented, leaving behind more and more broken-up families and abandoned wives, thereby leading the middle-aged to the heartfelt realization that women cannot afford to grow old.
beauty parlors are being opened one after another and the cosmetics market is getting more and more prosperous in order to keep the youthful face of women forever fresh.. proper facial care, hair-dressing or aerobics are all necessary for women, but they are only superficial and can not last long. they can in no way do the cosmetic make-ups round-the-clock.. what will become of them after removing the cosmetics from their face?
women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared ． they need the sense of security too. we may well say that men’s youth lies in their career while women’s youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might. they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all. how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?
what are those women after? money? but will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully become wealthy old ladies?
maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and limousines. but these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our shoulders. is it still worth the price if their pursuit has become a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?
or maybe they need the money for their children to study abroad. but studying abroad is not the ambition of everyone. as we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldn’t choose the same way for them to grow up. doing business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different children. some even want to become chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after becoming successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession.. why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? what’s the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?
we should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for it. a billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and healthy. we may feel sometimes that the luxurious beijing roast duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with shallots. only when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with composure.
what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness. don’t do too much extra work, don’t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.
what’s more, they need security and friendship. no matter how strong a man is, he needs support; no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing. the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man. middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man. what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable. any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.
middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness. they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical. once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy
參考譯文：
中年是一個(gè)關(guān)鍵時(shí)期，中年婦女正面臨更加危險(xiǎn)。青年是依然存在，但它不能忍受任何疏忽或過(guò)失。住青年可以比喻為攀登陡峭的山坡，而疏忽將導(dǎo)致衰老的。這些誰(shuí)養(yǎng)活他們的青年將有選擇，否則在這個(gè)階段。
這是一個(gè)充滿誘惑時(shí)，誘人的女孩和富有魅力的女性彈出無(wú)處不在，使男人暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向，留下越來(lái)越多的破碎的家庭和被遺棄的妻子，從而導(dǎo)致中年人士的衷心實(shí)現(xiàn)婦女不能變老。
美容院正在打開(kāi)一個(gè)又一個(gè)的化妝品市場(chǎng)越來(lái)越繁榮，以使年輕婦女永遠(yuǎn)面對(duì)新..適當(dāng)?shù)拿娌孔o(hù)理，美發(fā)或有氧運(yùn)動(dòng)都是必要的婦女，但他們只是表面上的，并不能持續(xù)很長(zhǎng)時(shí)間。他們絕不能這樣做化妝品使企業(yè)全天候..什么將成為它們的化妝品后，消除他們的臉？
婦女需要完善其思想，使自己更理智的準(zhǔn)備。他們需要的安全感了。我們可以說(shuō)，青年男子是他們的職業(yè)，而婦女的青年依賴于他們的精神狀態(tài)和種植由于銀的崛起和衰退的羊，我們可以看到許多有能力的婦女設(shè)計(jì)和計(jì)算所有的可能。他們?cè)?jīng)是非常漂亮的，現(xiàn)在仍然迷人，但中年以后所有。多久，他們?nèi)匀槐３制錅p少青年？
什么是這些婦女在？錢嗎？但是他們會(huì)很高興，如果他們不得不數(shù)錢的瘦弱干癟的手后，他們成功地富起來(lái)老太太？
也許他們正在尋求為寬敞的住房和轎車。但是，這些只是我們服務(wù)的工具一樣，摩托車是我們坐，而不是對(duì)我們進(jìn)行了我們肩上。它仍然是值得的價(jià)格，如果他們的追求已成為一種負(fù)擔(dān)或壓力，要求他們犧牲的青年？
或者，也許他們需要錢為孩子出國(guó)留學(xué)。但出國(guó)留學(xué)并不是每個(gè)人的野心。正如我們經(jīng)常說(shuō)，孩子有自己的運(yùn)氣，我們不應(yīng)該選擇以同樣的方式為他們長(zhǎng)大。營(yíng)商或?qū)⒃谡?，工作，文職職位或軍事官員的不同選擇不同的兒童。有些人甚至想成為國(guó)際象棋選手，它是這樣一個(gè)美妙的職業(yè)生涯后，成為成功的，他們可以下棋有益的職業(yè)..我們?yōu)槭裁匆M的努力把我們的孩子在國(guó)外有這么多的不確定性？什么是點(diǎn)犧牲我們寶貴的青年向我們的孩子的地方，可能是天堂，還是地獄？
我們應(yīng)該尋求適度的財(cái)富，為沒(méi)有限制的。億萬(wàn)富翁吃不超過(guò)一日三餐和睡在一張床，而在晚上的家庭生活在一個(gè)微薄的工資可以是非常愉快，身體健康。有時(shí)我們可能會(huì)覺(jué)得這豪華的北京烤鴨，沒(méi)有更多的美味簡(jiǎn)單的煎餅比與青蔥。只有當(dāng)他們保持一個(gè)和平的心，他們既面臨有利和屈辱與鎮(zhèn)定。
什么是中年婦女的需要，以維持其青年和注定衰老？?jī)?yōu)秀品質(zhì)和良好的舉止，自信和冷靜。不要做太多額外的工作，沒(méi)有自己的輪胎，決不嘗試任何超越你的能力和精力。
更重要的是，他們需要安全和友誼。無(wú)論多么強(qiáng)大一個(gè)人，他需要的支持;無(wú)論多么獨(dú)立是一個(gè)女人，她需要的支持。在華麗的女孩可能關(guān)心只是娛樂(lè)，他們甚至可能不會(huì)考慮的可靠性和能力的一個(gè)人。中年婦女，但是，更為實(shí)際，他們必須面對(duì)的忠誠(chéng)和創(chuàng)造力的一名男子。他們正在尋求的是最忠實(shí)，最負(fù)責(zé)任的，世界上大，最可靠和最值得信賴的愛(ài)情幾乎是永恒的和不可改變的。任何形式的罷工可能會(huì)削弱他們的青年這是一次經(jīng)歷從未返回。
中年婦女必須保持清醒的頭腦而不是做事的任性。他們應(yīng)該能夠判斷誰(shuí)是真誠(chéng)的，誰(shuí)是虛偽的。一旦他們選擇的虛偽，而不是真誠(chéng)的疏忽，悲劇